Except you can't and didn't. You provided anecdotes from a curated segment of the population, which isn't proof of majority - you're moving the goalposts and hoping I don't call you on it.
"replies mentioning their DPS" isn't a proof of "the majority of healers in all types of endgame content are now DPSing and it is the common expectation". You're not proving what you think you're proving. So you have yet to provide substancee to back up your claims.
Still waiting for you to provide some substance to back up your claims btw.
(I've already given you two outs, why are you still digging your hole deeper?)
Sebazy? What happened to you?