How is this NOT harrasment/griefing?

[Eekiki]

want to know the reason? its pretty simple

OP probly got all pissy and started going off on the person hes whining about the moment he killed the first mob in behest outside the group. this happens ALOT.

lack of communication, which leads to someone feeling wronged, and instead of working out something, they go overboard, start yelling, screaming and insulting, and then feel like they have been majorly wronged still when the other person doesnt change their ways.

i bet OP probly did this and thats why the guy left the boss up, so OP didnt get any exp cuz hes not telling the whole story


there are always 2 sides to it, and he sure as hell aint gonna say anything that would make him look bad in any way shape or form

Oh, I'm certain that's true in that case, but in my case it was confusing. We weren't getting pissy, we were very cordial, he just didn't want to kill the boss for some reason. I was just curious if there was something I was missing or not.

[Dragon]

I have to ask, what reason is there to kill the mobs, but not the boss?

I just did a behest in Nanawa Mines, and the other person was a JP THM, who was actually level 37. He invited me (on my 33 CON) to a PT, and we killed all the mobs. Yet when the boss spawned, I started fighting it, and he just stood there while I solo'd it.

Aren't the achievements for completing behests, not just participating in them?

Yup, pretty much...