@ cid
I agree with what your saying, games should be fun. But also games do come with instruction manuels with at least basic control ley outs. I can see if you read the controls but still find it hard, thats imo is understandable. But to just jump in and expect to master the game the second you log in is a bit of a folly.

I'm a big time gamer but everyone new game I get It can take a bit to learn the controls. I always read/skim the book just for a basic understanding. Then I play the game and learn by doing. the ffxi tutorial was imo vety good. It was very informnative, fun yo do, and got rewarded for it. It was also just a text back, and were expected to know at least the basic controls. Which again are in the manual.