I think the rules are fine and I've never had any difficulty with them. On my server, people are having conversations all the time. I think it's really a balancing act of recognizing that your words are going to be heard by people who are different than you, who think differently than you, who may misunderstand your words, etc. So it helps to be a bit cautious in your wording and what you choose to express. It's a life skill that will benefit you no matter what you do in life!

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GM won't tell what I said wrong
What I don't think is fine is if GM's are punishing players but not communicating what those players are being punished for. I agree that GM's cannot and should not attempt to provide a comprehensive, black-and-white explanation of what behavior is bad vs good; that's simply not possible, as there's too much nuance and complexity. But a GM should at the very least be able to provide some sort of meaningful guidance to the offending player so that they have a better idea of how to improve. Punishment without even the most minor attempt at rehabilitation is a half-measure at best.

I say this with 100% respect, but I wonder if this might have been a language barrier issue? Boys, while your English is very good (far better than my ability to speak any non-English language) I get the impression based on your sentences that you might be a non-native speaker? And that makes me wonder if there might be some nuance that was lost in your communication with the GM. It sounds like maybe this is an area. Either way, sorry to hear you experienced this.