this is a really old post i know but as i've been farming fates lately for one of the mounts i've been in at least 3-4 fates where people either didn't know what the big forlorns were or didn't care and burned the mobs anyway. wholly agree they need to have a lot less HP, or at the very least make it so the fate can't be completed until the forlorn dies. it's such a bummer to lose out on all those gems and xp.