This games version of help players is basically "Fisher price, my first keyboard/controller" because if you don't explain how to do something to someone in the most dumbed down milquetoast way, you are in the wrong. Nevermind if you explain it and they refuse to listen or just flat don't care about it. You are forced to deal with it and suck it up or kick them out and find someone else. wasting 3-7 other peoples time because some paste eaters cant put the triangle in the triangle hole. You have to force it into the square and keep your head down.

Out of my 10+ years playing this game, its growing in community yes, but not a healthy one. You have to show fake positivity or just stay silent unless you have good friends and join discord and play there. Ever wonder why pf is always dead silent and no talking besides basic banter or basic yes/no? Cause if you are "Soft" this game is a haven for you, but if you want to get stuff done and not have your time wasted, you are a dying breed. I love when people point out issues and say when something is wrong. The problem with the modern audience is people just cant handle being told they are bad and need to fix it or leave.

Coddling people doesn't breed anything but thin skinned babies, in higher end content you should come in wanting to get stuff done, not waste others time because you don't take the time to learn your class or optimize your rotation. Regardless of what SE says, there is a right and wrong way to play this game, if it wasn't bosses wouldn't have enrage timers. You need to meet dps check to clear, others can only do so much and if you have people in the group snorting crayons in the back, you are not clearing unless you are WAAAAY over geared, which is unlikely in current content on a savage patch.