I suppose you are the only person I ever talked to in the healer forums and I suppose that's the only thread I had ever posted in. And no, you remembering me from almost 2 years ago, and searching for our previous conversations in an attempt to pull a gotcha isn't at all vitriolic. Not creepy or weird, either.
Regardless, I don't disagree with you that people managed in ARR. What I am saying is that as of right now, SE has dug themselves in such a deep hole where they enabled bad game play, and the community as a whole has enabled bad gameplay. People weaponize the ToS for telling someone medica 2 regens don't stack. Or that they should use more than just rampart at level 90.
Raising the skill ceiling is only going to make the problem worse. Where conent will become unclearable because of how bad people actually are. And you still won't be able to tell anybody to get better.
I'm not defending the way things are now. I'm saying they are the way they are because of all the enabling and coddling. When you get told "leave them alone. They're doing fine" because you see a max level healer struggling to keep only themself alive, that's a problem. Or when you get kicked from a duty for asking the DPS to "please dodge", that's a problem. When vote dismisses don't go through on a tank that has 8 vuln stacks at all times because "it's only their 4th time" in the max level duty you are running, that's a problem.
And until that changes, you will never get the harder content.