Quote Originally Posted by VeyaAkemi View Post
Largely, people don't like taking the initiative, especially for anything that can be perceived as "leadership", sure, it may seem easy, and it is easy for some people, but many other people have to deal with so much anxiety for things like that, that you might as well be asking them to eat a cyanide pill, in turn, it can lead to the people who are willing to take initiative for things like this to go on huge ego trips, because they start to perceive as themselves being the only thing holding things together, when in reality they aren't... doing anything, they just clicked two buttons on a MMO UI.

Is it that shocking that a lot of MMO players are nerds with anxiety issues?
I suppose so, but people can get over it. I consider myself having social anxiety and I still manage to form a pf when I needed to do some content that people dont run anymore (like Delibrum).

I think sometimes we expect games too much to change around us rather than us having to adapt to the game. It's why many games seem to have lost a lot of things in its design in the past all for the sake of overly convenience the player, and in an MMO's case thats a huge deal.

But thats a whole 'nother conversation.

Anyway I still think people dont realize just how simple and easy it is to form your own groups for things you want to do.