Cant update the game,getting constant "The server is not responding" and other errors

[mrdex12345]

Launched to get the latest update but it always get stuck on this "The server is not responding [30413][10009][10019]" error
Tried uninstalling but now i cant even download the game because:
- it sometimes gets stuck on login
- it sometimes give me a "Unable to dowload patch files [11003]"
- if the login works it gets stuck on "The server is not responding [30413][10009][10019]"
- Sometimer gives the error "Unable to complete version check"

- I play the steam version

Tried:
- restarting the PC
- restarting router
- running as admin
- tried "Verify integrity of game files" on steam
- also tried the following from another thread

Open the control panel of the PC and go to ‘Network and Internet’. Once there select ‘Internet Options’
- Under the "General" tab, please delete ALL browser history.
- Under the "Security" tab, please move the slider to the lowest possible settings or no higher than "Medium"
- Under the "Privacy" tab, click “Advanced” and select ‘Accept’ under both First Party and Third Party Cookies.
- Under the "Advanced" tab, please make sure that "Allow software to run or install even if signature is invalid" is CHECKED.
- Make sure that all SSL and TLS (EXCEPT SSL 3.0) are CHECKED. [SSL 3.0 should be UNCHECKED]
- Hit "Apply" to save the settings, and then "OK, to close the Internet Options menu.
- Right-Click on the FFXIV launcher icon and select "Properties"
- Hit "Apply", then "OK" to save the changes.
- Please RESTART your PC now. Once your PC has been restarted, Right-Click the FFXIV launcher icon once more and select "Run as Administrator"

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