Am i unintentionally poaching?

[Sotaris]

The former FC leader lowkey sounds like the FC leader I had many years ago and demanded I give up my personal house, cause it was a large and in a sought-after location for the benefit of the FC.

[Burmecia]

Did I poach?

Nope.
Sounds like you put fair amount of work towards the FC activities, and that makes people who enjoy full FC calendar wanna join your FC.
In which case gz, it simply sounds like you have build up cool fc just the way you want it to be.
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FC leader who acts like they own their members on the other hand sounds like they are not doing fine.

[Zomkei]

The former FC leader lowkey sounds like the FC leader I had many years ago and demanded I give up my personal house, cause it was a large and in a sought-after location for the benefit of the FC.

yikes. good thing you left and didn't listen to them lol

[RMoot]

Hopefully not the same person. We aren't without our flaws. I just didn't want to create a bad situation going forward like breaking unspoken rules.