1. PvP is and was always a team effort, only if you play 1v1 you alone can blame your lose. Thats why i find it funny, because even with randoms and the few things SE gave me to communicat, we scored a win and even if its by pure luck.. well then i'm a lucky little lalafell! After i read your answer, it sounds like you only play for the glam, so you dont even play ranked game, so why is a lose that bad?
2. You CAN play with your friends. Kinda atleast. Most of the times you end in the enemy team but even that CAN be fun, atleast if you troll your mate by targeting him as dragoon

But yea, the thing that you cannot form teams sucks a little bit.
3. If you dont want to play, then dont play. I have the mog and its not THAT great. Only you are forcing yourself to play, not FFIV
4. Like i said, a Season lasts long. You could play every day one or two matches and should reach lvl 25 if ya start at beginn of the season.. i think. Can somebody do the math? I suck at math.
5. For me its really.... a entiteld position to say you WANT that everybody can get the set, even after the season because you fear to lose out at something. I invest the time and sweat for the glam and you will get it for little to non effort a few month later? Thats not really fair for me, or is it?
6. On the Note of Nr 5: If they make the pvp glam availebal at a later date for little to non effort. I petition that ultima-weapons will be mogglestation items after a year. So i dont have to get good at raiding.