Quote Originally Posted by Toutatis View Post
Maybe because the advice is given aggressively? Because that ‘s not my experience. When I give advice, I do it nicely in an encouraging manner and I explain why. I usually get thanks and/or comms.

As for people not wanting to learn, no one likes being bad. Some people are naturally bad no matter how much effort they put into it (I know one such player with absolutely zero raid awareness and somewhat slow reflexes. She does put a lot of efforts trying to learn though). This game has more than just raiding and she likes that.

Some others can’t invest the time. When someone has 2-3 hours per week to play a game, they’re not going to spend the evening bashing a dummy, they want to progress the story and learn as they go. They’ll die along the way not knowing the mechanics and the markers in advance, most will end up with a decent rotation which may not be perfectly fine tuned and that’s ok.
Whenever I see people giving advice it's usually given incredibly passively, almost as if it's just a tiny, tiny suggestion. They do it in a manner that suggests that they are scared. They know they're doing it at their own risk and they don't want to face any backlash from trying to help someone improve. No one wants to walk on eggshells just to deliver a solid explanation on what the other player is doing wrong and how to improve, only to potentially get reported, or get told rudely that by the other player that they don't care.

I have never seen anyone give aggressive advice, mostly because most people that get aggressive just don't bother. They just insult, they're not constructive.