Why do people avoid getting better at the game?

[Gemina]

You realize that he is not joking right?

1 tank, 3 dps was a thing WEEK ONE of endwalker using 560/570 gear from class quests and extreme trials.

we are now at 630ilvl and stuff does not do damage.

Neither am I. I'm more than happy to pull him or anyone else into an instance and toss zero heals their way for them to put their money where there mouth is. The condition however, is it will be a dungeon of my choosing.

I'm fully aware that there are plenty of dungeon bosses that can be done without heals. It's one of my biggest gripes as a healer as it can be demoralizing if you die as a healer and the group beats the boss anyway. However the trade off for having bosses that will wipe the group if the healer falls is the wipe is on them. It's a very tricky situation so I understand why the dev team uses both approaches with dungeon bosses.

That's a little beyond my point though. The poster I called out gaslights into dungeons being like this in general, which is not true, and I'm willing to back that up. In short, his statement is not a testament to how easy dungeons are. Some players actually do struggle with this content, and players like him don't help.