Kinda agreed with the premise of your thread, but lashing out at the one harmless person and taking it out on them that other people are bullying you is lame. I don't necessarily agree with those saying "oh you want the game catered to you!", because eh, you don't. It just makes sense that DoH abilities would be counted as SFX for Jobs, thus the option muting combat Jobs abilities as well. As a crafter who just squats and commences the first chance I get, the BSM/ARM clangs annoy me too.
But it's just ironic to scream that people are bullying you and then proceed to mock someone doing harmless roleplay. If it pisses you off, ignore it. At this point I'd say do the same for DoH sounds that annoy you. Seems like you could do more of ignoring things that displease you in life.