Is how much I have to use Google to know what I have not unlocked yet, and how the game do not present itself properly in my opinion.
It does not sound like a good idea to completely hide off everything the player have not yet unlocked of the Duty Finder. Instead, it would be 1000x better to show the entry as "not unlocked yet" (with red frames perhaps) and also point out directions (simple saying "to unlock this you need to finish MSQ and talk to NPC xyz on location abc" or something like that).
The recommendation window on the game also don't serve its purpose if it will not point out important things that need to be done to unlock raids, trials, the cool stuff. So as a new player I go to recommendations => Raid, instead of instructing me on what is needed to unlock things, the window will show nothing.
If it was not a friend of mine asking if I had already unlocked the Asphodelos stuff, I would not even KNOW it exists, and I have already finished the Endwalker MSQ... I'm actually SHOCKED at how this community accept this as normal, because it is not.
Perhaps Square Enix should pay half of our sub prices to Google, since it seems like Google is a requirement to play FFXIV
EDIT 1 - "The problem is that you want the game to hold your hands, but some people like to figure things out"
When a game is design for people to "figure it out" something like a quest, the game will HINT things so players have some ground to go. Like the old WoW quests where it reads like "go north of the city, look where the tree has no leaves" and stuff like that. FFXIV totally HIDES the unlocked content, meaning players needs to either BREAK IMMERSION and alt tab to look at google or do every blue quest just to know something exist. And also FFXIV quests literally point out the precise location you need to go, there is no “figuring out” at all in FFXIV.
EDIT 2 - "I don't have this issue. When new quests become available they are almost always on the same map as you are when you unlocked it, and thus easily found"
You're not a new player. Try to have some empathy. There is no "new quests becoming available" for a new player joining the game. Everything is there, a multitude of blue quests and you either look online for what is important that you're missing or do every single thing at once.