Change/Remove Lalafell "Lifter"...

[Masekase_Hurricane]

Hey don't make fun of Lalafells... they taste good with some garlic and salt.

That's way out of order!!!

You forgot herbs

[OziAuros]

To be fair, no one should ever be excluded from any venue because of their race. I wad asked to leave a venue once because it had courtesans and they were uncomfortable having a Lala around. I flst out told them "No thanks. I think I'll stay around " they were a bit confused, but didn't harass me. I expected I might get reported and messaged by a GM, but nope, nothing.

Unless you have someone actually making a scene, you have no business telling certain players or races thst they can't be around.

If you're at a venue and the people running it ask you to leave, what makes you think that is an okay response?

[LostUser]

If you're at a venue and the people running it ask you to leave, what makes you think that is an okay response?

Entitlement. Ego. Self-importance.

It's really poor form to force yourself on people who don't want you around, and only a certain kind of person would be bragging about that.

[Tsurayu]

If you're at a venue and the people running it ask you to leave, what makes you think that is an okay response?

Because I wasn't being rude.

Thankfully neither were they. They didn't just straight up tell me to leave and grab a bunch of their "bouncers" and surround me or other horror stories I have heard. They asked nicely, and I responded nicely that I had no intention of leaving.

I'm sure one or more of them probably kept an eye on me, but I never interacted with their courtesans. All I ever did was chat with my friends that I went to the venue with, and danced a bit on the floor. They had no reason to ask me to leave for that, and so I chose to stand my ground, but not do it in a way that made a scene or give credence to their complaint towards me. Thankfully nothing came of it. Stigma against Lalafells isn't going to get better by Lalafells making a scene and acting like the spoiled children they claim to not be, but likewise nothing will ever change if Lalafells just sit there and take the verbal abuse either. There is a constructive middle-ground somewhere.

[PeaTearGriffin]

Lalafells are made to look like children. Why are they suddenly upset when they're given things made for children?

[Dragonlancer]

RISE UP LALAS!!!! It's time we took over!!!!!

[OziAuros]

Because I wasn't being rude.

Thankfully neither were they. They didn't just straight up tell me to leave and grab a bunch of their "bouncers" and surround me or other horror stories I have heard. They asked nicely, and I responded nicely that I had no intention of leaving.

I'm sure one or more of them probably kept an eye on me, but I never interacted with their courtesans. All I ever did was chat with my friends that I went to the venue with, and danced a bit on the floor. They had no reason to ask me to leave for that, and so I chose to stand my ground, but not do it in a way that made a scene or give credence to their complaint towards me. Thankfully nothing came of it. Stigma against Lalafells isn't going to get better by Lalafells making a scene and acting like the spoiled children they claim to not be, but likewise nothing will ever change if Lalafells just sit there and take the verbal abuse either. There is a constructive middle-ground somewhere.

If you're being asked to leave, the correct response is to leave. There's no nuance to that. It's not your call to determine whether or not you're okay in somebody else's space. You don't get to determine what reasons they're allowed to have to want someone gone. They don't need a reason to begin with.

[Priddy]

Because I wasn't being rude.

You're inherently being rude by staying in someone's property when they don't want you there, full stop. Unfortunately the game lacks a method of kicking/banning players from your own property, but if it did exist, it would be completely fine for them to kick you. It doesn't necessarily mean that they had a good reason to do it, and it's fine to be annoyed by it, but it is always someone's right to exclude you from their own space.