Hmm ok, maybe I should re-phrase. I know there is a lot of different gear for different situations, so there is no BEST gear. Maybe I just want something that is close to the best, but also unique?

For instance, for each job, uniqueness is easy because you can just use AF gear and weapons (when we get them).

But say I wanted to make a unique gear set for each class too, any suggestions on what to use? From what I've read some good choices for end-game stuff is Militia gear, AV/CC gear (Darklight?), Sanctioned GC gear, and high level crafted gear (Vanya stuff?). For weapons I wouldn't know how to choose between high-level crafted weapons, GC weapons, or Primal weapons...

I guess I'm just asking for suggestions, because I want to equip each of my seven classes with a completely different set of gear. It's just a weird OCD thing I want to do.