I get you don't like New SMN, but don't lie about it. Just because you don't like something doesn't make it EVERYTHING wrong in the world. Guess what? It's possible for it to be dumbed down, bad, and even a terrible idea while still being less disjointed than Old SMN. And what "by definition" are you referring to, EXACTLY?
You ignored my "colossal post" because it stated clearly WHY and HOW Old SMN was more disjointed than New SMN. New SMN has many things you can complain about with it, but being disjointed isn't one of them.
I think it ultimately depends on the player.
Which is kind of my point.
The terms are useless because they have no defined meaning and are just boogieman terms hurled at anything one doesn't like.
The problem with "get a feel for" is that different people "feel" different places. For example, I "feel" SMN is in a very good place right now, and is one of the only DPS Jobs that I don't "feel" has something obnoxious that makes it a chore to play rather than enjoyable to play. The only other one that comes close to me is RDM except for the proc system making it obnoxious. (Not the proc system itself, but how the procs aren't well displayed to the player). It's subjective to the point the term is useless as long as it doesn't catch those feelings like mine along with those like yours. I think we'd agree a Job that pressed one and only one button the entire time would be too much pruning, but the line above that of "cutting into the quick" vs "so long they're snapping off" we likely won't agree on unless there are some kind of objective measures we can employ.
I don't think there's tension "everywhere you look". It's just prominent people talking about it, while the rest of the playerbase remains blissfully unaware. It's kind of like politics. The extreme left and right are the loudest voices and get all the screen time, they're talked about in the news all the time, their politicians are the most outspoken and introduce the most dangerous bills...but then you have the normies which make up the vast majority of both the politicians and the public, EASILY outnumber the extremists on both sides added together, yet since you never hear from them, you'd think they were the minority instead. Listening to Fox or MSNBC and CNN, you'd think the world is about to end and the nation on the brink of one doom or civil war or another. But then you talk to normal people or listen to the middle of the road politicians and wonder where the hell the crazies are getting this from. I feel like FFXIV Job design is probably in a similar boat right now.
If anything, I think RDM is in more trouble than SMN is, for example.
EDIT: To clarify on that...
RDM mostly feels good to play and has its longstanding easy to understand conceptually and pick up, has nuance if one wishes to truly master it going for it. The problem is it is SEVERELY undertuned to the point of not QUITE unviable but not FAR from it for many comps.
It's kind of telling when, with ALL the utility RDM can bring (the Raise aside, it has an extra party mit and a party damage buff) that it is less played in TOP than BLM, the most difficult Caster that has the least utility and the most clunky mechanics. Though it IS possible this is just an artifact of Ultimate design (P8S-2 sees RDM in a far healthier spot, for example), there definitely seems to be a gap in overall damage that shouldn't be there.
When RDM is behind DNC and BRD...there's an issue.
Instead of trying to fix a problem that isn't in SMN, focus should be on fixing the problem that is with RDM. And the fact remains that SMN seems to be widely enjoyed by the playerbase as a whole, so it really ISN'T the problem.
Though as I've long been, I do think the next DPS Job added should be a DoT Caster like Green Mage or something with Old SMN's rotation. I doubt the Devs will do it, but the irony is...Old SMN was straight up 2 min meta, so it would be entirely compatible with the new paradigm...