Quote Originally Posted by Seraphor View Post
'Not being an asshole' is BS?

The phrase used was "offense is taken, not given" which is used to absolve oneself of responsibility. "I can say whatever the hell I want and it's your fault if it offends you". It's victim blaming. That means intentionally offending people, however they decided to excuse it afterwards.

If that's not what was meant, maybe try using your words more carefully so that they convey what you mean? See? How words mean things?
See how you took offense on something that wasn't meant to be offensive?

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