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    Quote Originally Posted by Kolaina View Post
    It’s not about how they follow advice. It’s about their reaction to anything non positive. You demonstrated part of the problem. You misrepresented the comment
    I stand corrected. The phrase "As per my earlier example; stop standing in the bad in duties and the team progresses easier. Or keep standing in the bad and blame the healer for your own shortcomings you aren’t mentally or emotionally equipped to deal with" is not about ignoring advice. It is the opinion of the writer for anyone who dares to respond to that criticism ... except in this case, there wasn't any response to criticism mentioned.

    Personally, I do not find it so easy to dismiss players using "you aren't mentally or emotionally equipped". Perhaps that is the way the writer copes. After all, "People don’t like being made feel negative. But it’s how we handle it and what we do with it."
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    Quote Originally Posted by DPZ2 View Post
    I stand corrected. The phrase "As per my earlier example; stop standing in the bad in duties and the team progresses easier. Or keep standing in the bad and blame the healer for your own shortcomings you aren’t mentally or emotionally equipped to deal with" is not about ignoring advice. It is the opinion of the writer for anyone who dares to respond to that criticism ... except in this case, there wasn't any response to criticism mentioned.

    Personally, I do not find it so easy to dismiss players using "you aren't mentally or emotionally equipped". Perhaps that is the way the writer copes. After all, "People don’t like being made feel negative. But it’s how we handle it and what we do with it."
    You seem to coping yourself or have a hero complex where you feel the need to protect everyone. If a player is given advice which they choose to ignore or snap back at it they really aren’t equipped to handle interactions. Its not rude to say.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nyxs View Post
    You seem to coping yourself or have a hero complex where you feel the need to protect everyone. If a player is given advice which they choose to ignore or snap back at it they really aren’t equipped to handle interactions. Its not rude to say.
    Pretty keen on psychoanalyzing someone you've never met. That appears to be the typical methodology of those who buy into the "get a spine" pseudo-rhetoric.

    Is all of the above meaningless blather necessary to justify your last sentence? You could have made your point just as easily without the pseudo-insult at the beginning.
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