Quote Originally Posted by Kolaina View Post
Not everything is verbal abuse. That’s a key part of this. Criticism is valid and can be used to grow. Just because it hurts your feelings or makes you uncomfortable doesn’t equate it to abuse.

People don’t like being made feel negative. But it’s how we handle it and what we do with it. Treat all criticism as abuse and let it consume you, then what you were criticized on will always be there. Instead learn from it. Grow from it. As per my earlier example; stop standing in the bad in duties and the team progresses easier. Or keep standing in the bad and blame the healer for your own shortcomings you aren’t mentally or emotionally equipped to deal with
This one hundred percent. Well said. If people truly dont want to learn and grow you can’t do anything for them. People that stubborn need to seek help but probably won’t.

Sort of related, people around me smoke cigarettes. It has long term effects and its a costly addiction. I advise them they would feel and do much better if they quit but they wont. Obviously they dont like my advice and still do it.