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    Caelia Silverarch
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    50/50... especially considering some very concerning reports recently (if you know, you know, I'll just say Lamia and some will probably already know). Good for that kind of info, but it most certainly is a double-edged sword because of harassers and people who get throwaway accounts solely to continue to harass. If they'd update the blacklist function to actually BE a blacklist and upped how many people you could add to it, I think it would makes things a lot less terrible than they are now.

    Quote Originally Posted by Corrupted View Post
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    Not quoting you for what you said, but I know what series you're a fan of, I can't believe there's more of us! There's gotta be at least 10 of us now out in the wild!
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    Part of the reason why I'm against it is kinda selfish and only concerns me, but I still keep tabs on a former "friend" and their new friends "two other" that change names as much as they drink fantasia...

    Long story with unnecessary details aside, being tricked & hurt by them along with the crowd they started to attract was enough for me to start keeping track of who they were and if they happen to show up on the same world again, I'd have a heads up about who they were.

    Not much care for the others, but the main "friend" was manipulative and freakishly different after their first move 2 years ago so I fell for this new person not knowing it was them all along. They pulled the same problems after seeming completely different and moved again...

    That terrifies me a bit so having the option is both a curse and a blessing. I can change names and block out my info, but so can they on top of sounding and acting like a completely different person.
    I know this isn't as dangerous as actual stalking and/or tracks back to real life, but this is my reason and why I said earlier it's selfish.
    So again, on the fence for this.

    Quote Originally Posted by rainichan View Post
    Not quoting you for what you said, but I know what series you're a fan of, I can't believe there's more of us! There's gotta be at least 10 of us now out in the wild!
    I like how you kept it vague, leaving it a mystery is nice although I doubt it's that hard to figure out
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    Quote Originally Posted by Corrupted View Post
    Part of the reason why I'm against it is kinda selfish and only concerns me, but I still keep tabs on a former "friend" and their new friends "two other" that change names as much as they drink fantasia...

    Long story with unnecessary details aside, being tricked & hurt by them along with the crowd they started to attract was enough for me to start keeping track of who they were and if they happen to show up on the same world again, I'd have a heads up about who they were.

    Not much care for the others, but the main "friend" was manipulative and freakishly different after their first move 2 years ago so I fell for this new person not knowing it was them all along. They pulled the same problems after seeming completely different and moved again...

    That terrifies me a bit so having the option is both a curse and a blessing. I can change names and block out my info, but so can they on top of sounding and acting like a completely different person.
    I know this isn't as dangerous as actual stalking and/or tracks back to real life, but this is my reason and why I said earlier it's selfish.
    So again, on the fence for this.


    I like how you kept it vague, leaving it a mystery is nice although I doubt it's that hard to figure out
    It's really unfortunate that happened to you. Having a falling out with the people you thought were friends is rough. Are these people actively stalking you? Because if they are, I can only see how a feature to private your lodestone page and changing your name would benefit you in this situation.

    Quote Originally Posted by Solarra View Post
    Since Square will have all account information, I don't think the argument that this will protect bad-actors holds water.
    More people need to understand this.
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    Last edited by Senn; 02-02-2023 at 11:12 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corrupted View Post
    Long story with unnecessary details aside, being tricked & hurt by them along with the crowd they started to attract was enough for me to start keeping track of who they were and if they happen to show up on the same world again, I'd have a heads up about who they were.
    You don't need to track people on the lodestone if you just blacklist the people who offended you. Having the option to hide your own lodestone profile would protect you, not them.

    If an a-hole makes themselves disappear and they are blackilisted, that's a desirable outcome isn't it? They're gone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Reinha View Post
    You don't need to track people on the lodestone if you just blacklist the people who offended you. Having the option to hide your own lodestone profile would protect you, not them.
    If they were in game friends even if Corrupted removed/BL them they can still see her in their friendlist so no matter if she changes name or hide lodestone they can still track her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sesera View Post
    If they were in game friends even if Corrupted removed/BL them they can still see her in their friendlist so no matter if she changes name or hide lodestone they can still track her.
    There is going to be an update soon to make it so if you remove someone from your friendlist, you will be removed on the other person's list too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Senn View Post
    There is going to be an update soon to make it so if you remove someone from your friendlist, you will be removed on the other person's list too.
    That's neat then

    Glad they're doing it.
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    Yeah I agree. This game's got a privacy issue in general, but the lodestone is like a stalker's wet dream. There are also third party tools that scrape data from the lodestone to give even more personal information like which linkshells they're in, whether or not they're likely to be married in game, etc.

    Quote Originally Posted by Senn View Post
    There is going to be an update soon to make it so if you remove someone from your friendlist, you will be removed on the other person's list too.
    Do you have a source on this? I want to believe it. Took them a decade to implement, but I'd love to see it. Better late than never.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Avoidy View Post
    Yeah I agree. This game's got a privacy issue in general, but the lodestone is like a stalker's wet dream. There are also third party tools that scrape data from the lodestone to give even more personal information like which linkshells they're in, whether or not they're likely to be married in game, etc.



    Do you have a source on this? I want to believe it. Took them a decade to implement, but I'd love to see it. Better late than never.
    Here you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/ffxiv/comme...ch_option_qol/
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    Quote Originally Posted by Reinha View Post
    You don't need to track people on the lodestone if you just blacklist the people who offended you. Having the option to hide your own lodestone profile would protect you, not them.

    If an a-hole makes themselves disappear and they are blackilisted, that's a desirable outcome isn't it? They're gone.
    Given what I said already, how else am I supposed to know who they are in order to blacklist if I don't keep track of them (and their frequent name changes)? I don't know how the blacklist handles characters on a different data center, but if it is anything like friendlist then yeah I would first need to wait for them to be in the same DC/world to blacklist them (which they currently aren't, and is the problem)

    Call me paranoid, but I did explain the situation and would not want to run it again so I either keep track of them or hope they somehow rework the way blacklisting works (which doesn't seem likely)
    It's good that they finally decided to add in (remove from fl = removed from theirs) here's hoping proper blocks come in the next 2 years!
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