
Originally Posted by
Cleretic
I want to ask an important question that I think is being missed in a lot of these things people are saying they're ignoring.
Why? Not why as in 'why this thing specifically', but why as in 'why have you chosen to ignore it', why was that what you chose to do? Is it a functional thing, where you're roleplaying or writing fanworks and this element is too much effort to include or works against what you're going for? Is it a mental health/comfort thing where that part is personally triggering or upsetting enough that it's better to put it out of mind? Something else that's just not occurring to me?
I ask because I think a lot of people are just using this thread to air 'lore/story I don't like', and that... doesn't sound right. Sure, a game you like did a thing you don't; are you really ignoring that, or are you just here to passive-aggressively say they shouldn't have? And if you are ignoring it solely because you don't like it, is that how you handle any media doing the same? Are you trying to create some perfect internal FFXIV rather than accepting that it may have flaws or disagree with you?
In writing this, though, I did realize there is part of the game's lore I do 'ignore', but it is more complicated than that: the concerning amount of uses of sexual assault basically solely for 'darkness' and shock value in ARR especially. I don't entirely block it out, but I do my best to just leave that as far away as possible from both my roleplaying and lore discussions, including my videos (although unfortunately, my next one does have to touch on an instance in HW). I find it genuinely uncomfortable just how much it was done and with so little respect, but fortunately the devs both use it less now and treat it with more respect when it comes up; after HW it's basically only Yotsuyu, and that part of her is done quite well. I'll readily call ARR out for it when it comes up, but it's generally just better to put it out of mind for the most part.