Yeah I know this is mostly a rant, but I feel this needs to be public knowledge and I’m not even sure if I should be posting this here…


And now, onto the show.

Yes I know from the title it’ll be “sounds like your own fault, no sympathy just move on.” And if you feel that way I understand your point of view and don’t meet with it and that’s fine. But I want to make this post to help future players perhaps.

So when the new housing wards was announced I was excited. I’d been trying to upgrade to a Medium for a while. To no avail. Something I think we all agree on.

I used to make fun of people on Reddit and here for having housing problems because I got my house the moment I found the plot when the server Im on was more empty. Now I got my all deserts I guess.

I was prepping for raid, finishing up D&D on Discord and thought I’d quickly check out the new wards to see if they’re available. They were and I was excited. I got out my gil went to the board and put in my bid without really looking or thinking and ADHD had already made me forget where I was so I assumed I was stood right outside of the one I wanted. There was this disclaimer that would pop up but my monitor made the text impossible to read for me cuz my eyes suck even with glasses. I wish I had someone to restate them to me so I could know if this is what was said in it.

This all was all good everything was fine. Until I noticed my gil was higher than it should be. It was then I realized I was stood in front of a small. Alright cool I’ll just withdraw and move over. Nope. It won’t let me withdraw. Okay, then I’ll just move over to the medium and just force it to, nope. Won’t even let me.

And this is where my frustration began. Because I was right at that moment pretty indifferent to how things were going. Just contact the GMs they’ll fix it everything will be fine and all will blow over and Raid will be smooth as butter. GM finally contacts me and… “it is currently not something the GMs can do.” (Not literally just my own words). Huh? Okay then guys, who can help me then? Where should I take this concern? They wouldn’t get back to me until I was about to log off but I’d already drafted up an SE support ticket for it as well. Surely they have higher permissions. Well the GMs got back to me and explained how… I’d have to wait for the ruling to get the gil back because it was impossible to do or blah blah blah and that I’d just have to withdraw if I won and lose half the gil I put in.

This made me upset. I could not understand their logic. They neither addressed my issue or my question I asked about who to contact. I sent the SE email and thought I’d not hear from them in a week (spoilers, it was under 10 hours). And on top of that I was already of the belief that if I won I’d waste the other person who bid’s time and now I’m losing gil too? What nonsense is this? So I desperately waited for the SE support (not gonna post their response, it was literally the exact same thing). And the more I thought about it, the more insulting that response was to me. They didn’t even give me an answer to where to take the complaint to my issue. Part of me is so upset I want to live stream me on hold with SE to find out how to fix this if I even get in a call with them at all.

At this point I’m not mad. I’m almost dejected and want my woes heard. Every time I make a post on this on Reddit it goes nowhere and people tell me how I’m in the wrong, usually rightfully so. But now I’m going to waste my own gil and someone else’s time because the GMs and nobody will help me direct where to take this? And I don’t have any help whatsoever and just have to hope I lose a 50/50 coin flip when the plot I want could go away as well? Like at this point I’m disappointed. I’ve not had a bad experience with SE’s GMs but this just made me sad. I hope this is the outlier of my issues but I don’t know.

Anyway: TLDR, exactly what the title says, just the full story and me explaining that I’m probably in the wrong in places and that’s fine if I don’t meet eye to eye with everyone on this. Sorry if this is nothing but a rant and nobody takes sympathy on me.