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    Warrior Lv 70
    Quote Originally Posted by Kolaina View Post
    I honestly don’t understand what you are referring to. But I’ll do my best to answer in a way to clarify my stance.

    People don’t have to communicate. A person not talking is not a troll nor a reason to kick someone.
    However. I also don’t think an excuse has to be made to not want to play with someone. Difference of play style has been an accepted / approved reason to remove someone from a duty.
    You don’t have to play with anyone you don’t want to, just cut the crap. Again I’ll refer to saying someone is a troll just for making a mistake and not responding to it. You think they aren’t good enough to play with you? Fine. Gone with them. Just say it as it is
    Thing is I only thought of them as a troll because they gave me no other reason not to think of them as such. As mentioned I would not kick a player that is new, or is trying but they need to vocalize that, they cannot make an assumption that the group will know for what reason they are struggling. The double standard is regarding standards is that it seems you feel I should be more understanding towards the circumstance of others, yet for some reason do not think the person who is not talking should not be more understanding to the circumstances of those in their party.

    As mentioned I came to the conclusion that they were a troll / not participating because when given a chance to say what was up, they offered nothing. That is behavior of a troll or someone that simply does not care after being called out for a mistake, and asking if everything was okay. Just seems like a double standard to me. I have no issue playing with new people, or helping out others that want the help. If someone does not speak up how is the group to know they need help, especially when asked after making a mistake. IDK it seems you feel like this is more people not wanting to have a conversation, has nothing to do with that. I rarely speak in dungeons myself, I get people may have reasons for not speaking thing is when the player who has those reasons starts to negatively impact the group the burden is on them to clear up any misconceptions, not the other way around. I should not have to think of reasons to justify their actions, that should be 100% on them. IF they are unable to or unwilling to provide anything then imo they are not better than a troll,
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    Last edited by Bobby66; 01-09-2023 at 06:04 PM.
    Quote Originally Posted by Bellsong View Post
    Okay boomer.