Nothing here is normal and that's probably the best thing about this game and why I choose to stick around. I've been more social here and made more connections than other MMOs because there's more freedom to do so. I'm not wasting energy sitting around in a glorified chatroom hoping someone will see me advertising my class in the sea of LFG messages.
It's great to have the option to play at one's leisure and not just be forced into unsubbing because no one's around to do anything, especially the older content. What to farm old EX or savage content for a mount? You can find people to do that. Nothing feels forced, but that's exactly where we would be headed if they re-introduced the idea of FC activities. People can already to plenty if they put their minds to it.
At the end of the day, folks like you have nothing concrete to offer in the way of ideas, only complaints about how things are. Maybe you should channel that energy into improving the social situation in your neck of the woods.