I do not think the insults are OK but if you're this pressed about what randoms online who have no bearings on your life say, I suggest you stay off the internet.
Also claiming a mental illness generally doesn't matter to people online as many use that as a crutch to gain sympathy points. Just laying it out for ya man.
Last note long distance doesn't matter to me cause I set it to auto and the game flys/runs for me. To me personally this is a non issue