Read too many stories about people getting their account suspended. It's usually the sensitive bad player that doesn't press buttons that files the report after they got their feelings hurt when someone criticises them, and not even in a rude manner.
What's wrong with players being more direct? Why do FFXIV players have to weaponize passive aggressiveness in this game just so we don't get in trouble?
Like I can just imagine how Saul would protect it's players. Like a statement from him would be:
"Your honor, my client told the party to boot the tank because he was following the 'You Pull, You Tank' mindset and turned off his tank stance to grief the party. My client has lost their temper for a split second and called them an idiot in the chatlogs due to that tank's irrational behaviour!"
It would be amazing if everyone had a lawyer in this game. FFXIV should really just have a court system, since it would go well with the gaol system they have. When we get send to gaol, we have the right to know exactly what we did wrong and what the incident was, we explain our side, and the GM can put us on trial for this, then have the jury be a bunch of players who volunteer and will vote whether we're guilty or not.
Although this will never happen, because it's the perfect way to make enemies if you vote guilty on someone, the defendant will remember you forever and will witch hunt you for attempting to get them suspended. But this is just wishful thinking. I wish we had a better system for more justified suspensions. (No I've never been suspended, it's not the reason why I posted this, so keep dreaming.)
If Saul Goodman was defending you in trial in FFXIV, what would his statement be to defend you?