Damage meters wont get anyone comms.
They go for noticeable things like tank rushing ahead of group and not needing a healer or a healer who heals every mechanic fail.
If not for those things then they go for pretty plate with cheesecake or animated relic/ultimate weapon.
DPS are at the bottom of the pecking order.
How in god's name can anyone get themselves sexually harrassed through the internet?
The worst someone can do to you is send a dick pick and even then it's on you for opening a dodgy link.