We're three months out from when they first stopped gifting. If you're still stuck on this then maybe you need to look at yourself and this situation because this isn't what Christmas is about. It's about time to stop being so hung up on sending these gifts out and accept that you'll have to take alternative routes to gift giving. I have a friend that started sending people the cash value for items they might like. You can argue that it's thoughtless, but buying specific gifts doesn't require much thought either. Generosity is generosity, whatever form it takes.