Quote Originally Posted by Shibi View Post
Some advice, from someone married for a long long time, trying to control your partner to that extent will just end up with him resenting you and leaving.

A little freedom, a tonne of respect, and a lot of communication is the key to a long life together.
Its also a matter of simply matching in needs and wants. Someone could find someone that genuinely has the same views as them, there’s someone out there for everybody, however they can’t do that if there’s no sincerity. Thats why I strongly believe in telling your partner exactly what you like and be honest about it, not tell them what they want to hear.