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    Quote Originally Posted by LianaThorne View Post
    As far as weaponizing a stereotype, sure but at least have evidence of the person being the same stereotype instead of jumping into things being like: "Oh you're a lala? You must be a pedophile irl." There's a difference between being fair about it and just assuming from the start (which I don't agree with under any circumstance but I am someone who also needs sound proof before believing any accusations against anyone). I don't really consider it lazy either to go that route, I just really can't get on board with immediate cancel culture or excluding people/treating others poorly because of a race in a game lol.


    As far as using it to improve themselves, depends on the person and how they view themselves in the first place tbh. I've met more narcissists and sociopaths on here than I'd like to admit and they see absolutely nothing wrong with how they act.
    Have you really though? Are you a trained professional? Individuals with ASPD are not as common as TikTok likes to make it out to be. For the most part they are just genuine assholes. Making that assumption is just as dangerous as falling into stereotypes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby66 View Post
    Have you really though? Are you a trained professional? Individuals with ASPD are not as common as TikTok likes to make it out to be. For the most part they are just genuine assholes. Making that assumption is just as dangerous as falling into stereotypes.
    Considering I *dated* said people and have been involved in their mental health, yeah I'd think I'd know.

    Appreciate your concern but you also have no idea what I'm referring to in terms of that specific aspect considering that's my personal life and we don't know each other.

    Oh wait, it's Bobby...why am I even explaining myself
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    Quote Originally Posted by LianaThorne View Post
    Considering I *dated* said people and have been involved in their mental health, yeah I'd think I'd know.

    Appreciate your concern but you also have no idea what I'm referring to in terms of that specific aspect considering that's my personal life and we don't know each other.

    Oh wait, it's Bobby...why am I even explaining myself
    You did say you "met" them here on the game, now you saying not only you dated them but also were involved in their mental health.

    All I am saying is becareful, as someone with a clinical diagnosis of ASPD we are few and far inbetween and often people mistakes traits and stereotypes as you have X. As my doctor likes to say true ASPD's are extremely uncommon in the grand scheme, and they take years to diagnosis let alone treat. So forgive me if I doubt your claims you have met many with ASPD in game. Sure you may have met people that share traits and characteristics but I am dubious if you actually met many people with ASPD.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bellsong View Post
    Okay boomer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby66 View Post
    You did say you "met" them here on the game, now you saying not only you dated them but also were involved in their mental health.

    All I am saying is becareful, as someone with a clinical diagnosis of ASPD we are few and far inbetween and often people mistakes traits and stereotypes as you have X. As my doctor likes to say true ASPD's are extremely uncommon in the grand scheme, and they take years to diagnosis let alone treat. So forgive me if I doubt your claims you have met many with ASPD in game. Sure you may have met people that share traits and characteristics but I am dubious if you actually met many people with ASPD.
    Yeah, I meet and date some. *shrug* Welcome to online dating. I get you're trying to make it out like I armchair people but I'm not speaking on anything outside of what they've told me themselves.

    That's all I'm gonna say on the topic because again, I have no idea who you are outside of your reputation on here and you also have no idea about my personal life or those who have come in and out it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LianaThorne View Post
    Yeah, I meet and date some. *shrug* Welcome to online dating. I get you're trying to make it out like I armchair people but I'm not speaking on anything outside of what they've told me themselves.

    That's all I'm gonna say on the topic because again, I have no idea who you are outside of your reputation on here and you also have no idea about my personal life or those who have come in and out it.
    :P I am a nobody on this forum I doubt I have much of a reputation tbh. And no I was not going for you solely trying to arm chair people per se, just that you should be careful cause self and misdiagnosis when it comes to serious mental health issues like ASPD are a major issue and many people like to use them as an excuse for their behavior especially towards others.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bellsong View Post
    Okay boomer.