What do players even do during ERP ?

[Amenara]

I don't think many people care about how the other person looks, when reading their smut.
I guess it's not much different than reading a steamy novel - it does not matter how the author looks, right? It's all about the novel's characters, and the same might be true for eRP.

I mean the RP stands for role playing, most probably don't think about anything beyond that.