I come to you in a time of dire need (Glam question)

[Arazehl]

Overreacting? Someone who has a behavior like that in a Game ... does this in Real too. Stalking, creepy behavior is NOT normal.
Someone who is an ass in Real life is usually also an ass here in game.

Overreacting, Yes you're not thinking clearly. Listen I'm not saying his idea is the best of ideas or condoning his choices. It wasn't the brightest of ideas, and he's pretty much admits the same. However your approach and behaviors here in the forums are pretty much just as bad. Calling people perverts that you don't even know, ranting on about someone's character in real life like it's fact. It's just as bothersome or even more-so if you ask me. Nuisance behavior is prohibited, but in the same token so is your insults and slanderous name calling you exhibited in this thread. It's like the pot calling the kettle black. Maybe you're the naive one here, that you don't see that you too are breaking policy by company standards as well. He didn't enter the apartment for sexual gratification, so maybe you need to look up what a pervert is.

Telling me and any other in this forums where I can or cannot go and to stay out. Houses/apartments are made public or private. Going into one is not against SE policy, so your point is mute there. So again I suggest you get off your "high horse" and accept the fact he sees and understands there were mistakes made. Stop the hypocritical behavior you have displayed and move on.

[Renalt]

Oh no. I'm totally a pervert. Again...Balmung. Comes with the territory.

: )

[Renalt]

Well the person in room one just walked by me so I asked them in person if I bothered them. They are 100% not offended and had fun with it. I took a screenshot for proof it it's needed.

[Aneshda]

Overreacting, Yes you're not thinking clearly. Listen I'm not saying his idea is the best of ideas or condoning his choices. It wasn't the brightest of ideas, and he's pretty much admits the same. However your approach and behaviors here in the forums are pretty much just as bad. Calling people perverts that you don't even know, ranting on about someone's character in real life like it's fact. It's just as bothersome or even more-so if you ask me. Nuisance behavior is prohibited, but in the same token so is your insults and slanderous name calling you exhibited in this thread. It's like the pot calling the kettle black. Maybe you're the naive one here, that you don't see that you too are breaking policy by company standards as well. He didn't enter the apartment for sexual gratification, so maybe you need to look up what a pervert is.

Telling me and any other in this forums where I can or cannot go and to stay out. Houses/apartments are made public or private. Going into one is not against SE policy, so your point is mute there. So again I suggest you get off your "high horse" and accept the fact he sees and understands there were mistakes made. Stop the hypocritical behavior you have displayed and move on.

He goes into Apartments to spy on "ERP" Players. That is his only reason, as far I have read it here. So how do you call someone who behaves like that? There is no insult in my Postings, cause for me he is a pervert. Sure he didn't enter those Apartments for sexual gratification .... why he did it then?

Just because someone leaves his Apartment open for "Friends / FC" it doesn't mean you can walz in and harrass others. What is going on in your heads who tell others that this is all harmless and utterly okay. No do not answer this cause I don't want to read more shabby excuses.

I have no hypocritical behavior, just cause I write that what he did is not normal. Atleast I do not defend him, like everyone else here.


By the Way, this isn't your forum as far as I can tell so I can post whatever I want as long as I stick to the rules. And if you approve of abnormal behavior like the OP's, then that's up to you.
Others don't have to agree. If the thread creator can't handle criticism then maybe he should think about why he's being criticized.

[Midareyukki]

He goes into Apartments to spy on "ERP" Players. That is his only reason, as far I have read it here. So how do you call someone who behaves like that? There is no insult in my Postings, cause for me he is a pervert. Sure he didn't enter those Apartments for sexual gratification .... why he did it then?

Just because someone leaves his Apartment open for "Friends / FC" it doesn't mean you can walz in and harrass others. What is going on in your heads who tell others that this is all harmless and utterly okay. No do not answer this cause I don't want to read more shabby excuses.

I have no hypocritical behavior, just cause I write that what he did is not normal. Atleast I do not defend him, like everyone else here.


By the Way, this isn't your forum as far as I can tell so I can post whatever I want as long as I stick to the rules. And if you approve of abnormal behavior like the OP's, then that's up to you.
Others don't have to agree. If the thread creator can't handle criticism then maybe he should think about why he's being criticized.

You're conflating being called out on being rude, persistent and threatening with having an opinion others can agree or disagree with. Criticism is fine, but what you're doing goes beyond that with the way you've been wording it. And in case you haven't realized, everyone else has posted criticism of you, but you're the one who seems unable to handle it. OP made a mistake, OP owned it. OP even allegedly has evidence that someone he interacted with did not take it poorly whatsoever. He did all that, yet you're still saying he can't handle criticism? Are you the one ignoring him now? It's time for you to stop. Read the goddamn room.

If you can't, then it's no wonder people defend him. The issue doesn't just lie in his actions. They lie in how they're presented. He's capable of owning his mistakes. Are you mature enough do the same?

You're the one creating ridiculous excuses for your own behaviour. You THINK that your morals are the ones we need to follow, but we don't. This is a videogame, not real life. Anyone can go into your house if you allow it, at any time, unprompted. If you think it's rude, then all Square Enix says is "politely ask them to leave". Square's own TOS says as much: they won't interfere with disputes between players, they leave it to the players to sort it out themselves and be mature about it. If this were real life, this would be a bigger matter of contention. But there's no pudor within a videogame. Stop conflating the two and own up to your constant virtue signaling.

Also? Keep in mind that threatening to report people is something you can be reported for in turn. So too can persistent harassment and calling them names like "pervert". So if you're going to be a hypocrite, it's through breaking the ToS you apparently think you're defending.

[Renalt]

I didn't block their name cause it's already out there plus I don't want there to be any reason to doubt I staged this. Also I left the chat up so you can see that in comparison...I am rather tame. Are we done with this now?

[Midareyukki]

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Yikes, I thought this sort of chat was only normal in Balmung's Ul'dah! xD

I'm glad though, here I thought Balmung Shout chat was dry. Last time I was there, there was a very agressive political argument about European countries. It made Bozja look straightforward.

[DixieBellOCE]

I'm pretty basic and glamour has never been a huge thing for me. Hell I think I have like 3 blank glamour plates I'm never going to use...but an idea came to me and I MUST do this...for my own sanity. Plus it'll be really funny...

A story to paint the picture why I want this particular glamour...

I like to roam...I roam around a lot when bored. So when I first moved to Balmung I was like "Hey...maybe housing is available!" ( spoiler....no it's not ) but all plots were taken so I was like I'll settle for an apartment. Nope all apartments taken. So I was like "Ok...gonna look at a few and get some ideas on decorations"...

Then...it happened.

I apparently walked right at the end of soome ERP session and it was awkward cause I'm looking at them and they are looking at me. I panic and just say "Uh...Nice lamp!" and I leave.

After that night though I was like "How common is this?" So I started looking for it. The second time because of the room decorations/walls they didn't see me...but everything was in /say. I stuck around and listened in on it. Sadly after they were done one of the teleported away and the other just logged off. I really wanted to tease them cause the writing was...well even "50 Shades" would have been embarassed.

The third time it was something similar with them not seeing me but at least the writing was better. Anyway someone put and idea in my head..."You need to be the pizza man with a large sausage pizza".

Brilliant. I'm totally game.

So...I ask you...what pieces do I need to pull of "Pizza delivery man"?

Check out pizza girl on materia DC.

Shes a living legend, delivering pizza's all over materia.

[Arazehl]

I have no hypocritical behavior, just cause I write that what he did is not normal. Atleast I do not defend him, like everyone else here.


By the Way, this isn't your forum as far as I can tell so I can post whatever I want as long as I stick to the rules. And if you approve of abnormal behavior like the OP's, then that's up to you.
Others don't have to agree. If the thread creator can't handle criticism then maybe he should think about why he's being criticized.

3. You come out as a perv who sneaks into apartments to listen and watch what others are doing?

That's my whole point. You write he's perverted and when you clearly don't know what a pervert is. His intent was obvious.

And no you can't write what you want and you can't slander based on something you only "think you know". It's against the same policy you are calling him out for. Go look it up under "Nuisance behavior key points: Using insulting words such as "stupid," "idiot," "die," "crazy," "garbage," or "trash" to offend others."
(Yes calling someone a pervert counts). So yes you are being hypocritical. Should I report you too? Nah, you're just naive and a bit immature.

I won't bother to post anymore on the matter and indulge you in this pointless back and forth.

[rainichan]

Yep. My house is already locked anyway because I've heard horror stories of people finding players ERPing in their houses, but now I'm definitely keeping it locked because I don't want some creep lurking around.

This is precisely why my FC room and personal is locked lol. Sometimes, people who want a cute house to erp in will just... do that. And get mad when you walk into YOUR HOUSE to use it for crafting/idling/whatever. I don't want to deal with that, thanks.

He goes into Apartments to spy on "ERP" Players. That is his only reason, as far I have read it here. So how do you call someone who behaves like that? There is no insult in my Postings, cause for me he is a pervert. Sure he didn't enter those Apartments for sexual gratification .... why he did it then?

Just because someone leaves his Apartment open for "Friends / FC" it doesn't mean you can walz in and harrass others. What is going on in your heads who tell others that this is all harmless and utterly okay. No do not answer this cause I don't want to read more shabby excuses.

I have no hypocritical behavior, just cause I write that what he did is not normal. Atleast I do not defend him, like everyone else here.


By the Way, this isn't your forum as far as I can tell so I can post whatever I want as long as I stick to the rules. And if you approve of abnormal behavior like the OP's, then that's up to you.
Others don't have to agree. If the thread creator can't handle criticism then maybe he should think about why he's being criticized.

Oh my god. No, you're overreacting. If people are going to erp in their apartments/houses/fc rooms, they should probably LOCK THE DOOR after the person they're getting it on with gets in. Leaving the door open means anyone can walk in, at any time. If my house was open and I was RPing in it, I'd respond angrily in character and out of character probably be laughing because believe it or not, a lot of roleplayers find this kind of stuff funny. I don't doubt he'd fully apologize profusely and make sure he didn't bother someone again if they weren't for it out of character, but there are weirder people than the OP on my server (both natives and visitors.) If anything, this is a good lesson for people to lock their houses when they're doing erp, or even general sfw rp and don't want random people walking in to do either this or to see how they have their house/room decorated.