Quote Originally Posted by Renathras View Post
You aren't alerting me.

Alerting me would be:
"Ren, I get your arguments. You're raising a lot of fair points. I will engage with you on those points. <offers arguments and counter arguments>. I'd also like to point out that <insert specific quotes> might be coming across a way you don't intend. Can you clarify what you mean by that or avoid <insert specific terms that you find angry or vitriolic>?"
I am not a kindergarden teacher, and you are not a child who needs to be taught how to get along with others. You are an educated adult who is out of line and has treated everyone else here as beneath you. Name calling would be calling you an "airhead" or a "dimwit" or worse. Telling someone that they're being inflammatory is not an insult; it's an observation; it can be an incorrect observation, but there doesn't seem to be anyone who believes this observation was incorrect other than you. When the only person who believes the accused is innocent is the accused themselves, that usually means they're the one in the wrong. All conversations began cordial until you made it hostile and then played the victim. People aren't siding with me because they agree with my stance on healer design. They aren't that petty. If it was simply a disagreement of stances, I'd be the one being called out for making mountains out of molehills by everyone else regardless of whether or not I was on their side. I'd be getting responses like "Look I don't agree with him either, but you really need to chill out. It is not that serious."