Quote Originally Posted by Shibi View Post
The idealised virgin part of marriage is overrated and adds nothing to the longevity of the union. There is a lot more that is actually very important, like respect, trust, communication, equality, and not leaving the toilet seat up

A couple of spins round the block means your chosen partner has gotten all that out of their system and will be happy to settle down without regrets. Without that experience, they are always going to be all "is that all there is" with you.
Not necessarily, you can be fulfilled by only one person, I feel like people are eagerly encouraged these days to “experiment” as much as possible and it might work for some, but for other people, “going around” might make them feel more empty, purposeless and ultimately alone or used.

From my perspective and I speak solely for myself, it can be really fun to learn and do everything with one person, if you communicate you can have something really beautiful going on.
It would make me severely depressed to have to start dating and give my body to multiple men I barely know, its too intimate for some of us and Id have deep regrets to see that part of a relationship as something I can give to numerous people that easy, there is nothing to get out of my system but of course people are different and now you can easier find whichever type of person you wish for your own happiness.