Why is it so common to join extremes without watching a guide first?

[Midareyukki]

And for some, figuring things out on their own is the fun part of the game.

When you queue up for something via duty roulette you agree to compromise on how things go. So if most want to go in blind, then well, that's what you agreed to deal with.

If people are having issues with mechanics maybe try asking: does anybody want any tips on any of the mechanics? Or if they wanted any help on figuring out what to look for if they want to figure out how to solve it on their own if you know the mechanic. Kind of like how a parent helping a kid with homework wouldn't tell them the answer, but guide them to it.

Uh... You know, you had me at the first half... but no. No, if we're wiping this much in content and people still haven't grasped that they need to be mindful of other peoples' time, then I'm not the one at fault for not asking. Wiping 3 times warrants an explanation, because I'm not sitting around to explain one more thing if you're not going to get it. And guess what: they didn't get it! At that point it's frankly just being disrespectful.

It's not about being kind or following any code of ethics at that point. It's sheer common sense.

Work smarter, not harder. Someone went to the trouble to try and educate me... I'm going to take that lesson and apply it, so I can be a pro sooner rather than later.

This :T

Like, even if you don't want to be a pro, which I don't even expect you to be, if someone's telling you what to do and you're clearly not getting it, take the L and learn. Don't give the person lip, and don't ignore them right after. Because at that point, no, it doesn't matter if you want to go in and learn slowly, you lost all reason and that person doesn't need to deal with your entitled arse any further. They gave you a chance: learn or leave. You don't choose to learn and improve, they don't have to deal with you.

I didn't subscribe to anything past minimal common courtesy.