Why is it so common to join extremes without watching a guide first?

[Midareyukki]

People are impatient and I also think that people find watching guides akin to studying for an exam or test. You might need to do it but it's boring and a lot of people don't want to do it.

Then you fail the exam, so stop whining when the kids who did study got a better grade than you and don't want you around their group sessions to distract them.