Exactly.
Oh, you're right in saying this. I agree with that assessment. Unfortunately at no point was any of that sentiment properly worded by OP and her shills until now.
The devs do require praise as well, otherwise they're demotivated AF. But I'm sorry, I WON'T stop saying where they screwed up just because I know they'll be demotivated if I do. And sometimes, I can't just up and whip out a good thing out of my trousers, it's not that simple. And it looks forced if I do.
I pay the devs my subscription. I'm still around BECAUSE I love playing their content. I'm still a Hrothgar BECAUSE I love being one, otherwise I'd just change or stop playing. They made the content, well I'm playing it and enjoying it, even if it seems like they don't want me to. If the devs need a bit more motivation, then they have it, all over the internet. Millions of voices, tweets, posts, streamers, cosplayers, all of it, expressing their love and support for the game and their dev team.
But this is the only one place they accept criticism. And unfortunately for them, lately, it has to come hot and harsh. They had flaws in Stormblood, they had flaws in Shadowbringers. I didn't really care, hell, I even defended them at the time. But Endwalker for me was too much all at once.
I point to this post again. Remember that they were the ones who said "A criticism is better than a compliment".
Not me: THEM. We DO compliment them. But if they screw up, they have to know. And if they refuse to acknowledge their issues, how else are we meant to feel? How are healers meant to feel when they ask for challenge and are told to take a hike? From the dev team we're meant to sing praises to? It just makes us not want to sing any praise at all! And that shouldn't be devalued just because "it's too negative".