Quote Originally Posted by TheMightyMollusk View Post
The funny part about using Runar as an example is that she literally had no choice but to turn him down, since the other option was.....stay on the First, let her soul dissipate, and die. And she did let him down pretty gently and promise to try to find a way back.
It's been a bit since I saw the cutscenes, but I think she also refers to the First and the Night's Blessed as home. Whether she reciprocates Runar's romantic feelings or not (I personally to think she does. She just keeps things close to the vest), she certainly feels that her place is there with all of them.