Quote Originally Posted by Midareyukki View Post
The key takeaway from all this, Han, apart from "people in the OF's are d***s", is that you can do what you want to do. There's nothing inherently wrong with wanting your own group if that's what you're comfortable with. Obviously, you're going to ruffle feathers and not everyone will feel okay about it due to personal beliefs or experiences. But apart from that, there's not much discussion to be had; you have validation from several people, discussing the reason any further is just going to trigger an avalanche.

I do think some stuff you said really does need some rethinking, though, but it's a personal one. Not something you should ask strangers whose first impulse is to go ham at you and you at them. Especially not on these forums, rarely can you ever have a proper debate without people throwing crap, and if it's going to be an incensing topic like this, you can expect the crap to be flaming. It's a topic rife for drama.
You are absolutely right, I readily admit that I did not express myself in the best way at certain times and that I had a rather immature behavior in addition to basing myself solely on the ideas of other people. I learned a lot by reading the messages of some very based people

I thought I was an Alpha but I understand that I still have work ahead of me, I want to be an Alpha to protect those I love not to despise those weaker than me.
If I main a Paladin it's good because I've always liked the role of protector.
I made new friends and I already have my team of bros, which perfectly answers this topic.

I wanted to end this topic but I couldn't bear to let myself be insulted constantly and accused of things I've never done yes it pissed me off a bit and I would have liked the topic to be deleted before that

I'm not a troll contrary to what many think but that's just how I express myself and communicate I've always been very direct, that's how...

I don't want to continue to be insulted even when I participate in another topic, I don't really like this atmosphere where people quote messages that I wrote several months ago to spit on me.
Basically I just wanted to chat with people who love FF14 as much as I do, but good times and worse it's also a bit my fault because I also lack tact.