I have a overly orderly way of binding all my keys, no mouse clicks for anything. The perfect amount of abilities for me is 30, and that's how I'm choosing which jobs to focus on.
Here are the numbers by my calculation. It includes all abilities to level 90 and all role abilities. Edit: Limit Break not included.
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- Paladin 33
- Warrior 30
- Dark Knight 32
- Gunbreaker 31
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- Monk 28
- Dragoon 29 (edited from 27; forgot Arm's Length and Mirage Dive has returned in the last patch)
- Reaper 30
- Samurai 31
- Ninja 31
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- Bard 29 (edited from 30; had an instrument in that hotkey!)
- Machinist 26
- Dancer 29
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- White Mage 30
- Scholar 34 (includes both fairy summons, does not include fairy placement)
- Sage 30
- Astrologian 33
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- Black Mage 30
- Summoner 24
- Red Mage 29