I can only guess this because we only get to see your side of the story. It sounds like you made several party-wiping mistakes and didn't bother to try and communicate the oopsies, or see what the party was trying to say until later. If you were on a NA server, you would most likely get kicked for refusing to communicate too. I think you are upset because you got kicked and embellished the story a bit when you should have just reported it and called it a day.