Female Void Elves
Are Night Elf reskins and little else.

Meanwhile FFXIV creates hairstyles like Venat’s only for it to remain inaccessible to us?
Because she is a major npc and the devs dont want 1000 Venats walking around ingame?

calling me lazy for wanting direct teleportation access to Island Sanctuary from the beginning
So you want to just teleport directly to the island? St the start? Nope. The idea of the island is to develop it and you will get that transport later.

ungrateful
..exactly what is it I should be grateful to you for?