I only read half your comment once, and that was because you clearly didn't read mine and started a rant on something you didn't read or misread.
Thats great that there are players who have disabilities and can do content perfectly fine. Not all disabilities are the same. Not all people are the same. I'm sure you know that though.
Just because I am not AGREEING with you does not mean I am avoiding any sort of point you are trying to make. I think you're more upset that I have the stance of "let bad players be bad because maybe theres a reason for it, especially in freaking NORMAL content that is forced upon them" rather than the stance of "healers must DPS at all times no matter what".
I said "If you feel differently, you can, but I feel that makes you kind of a terrible person if you default to being mean to players in, lets be real, baby content lol". If you don't do this then these words are not directed towards you. If you do, then they do.
I play with a few people who have some form of disability which hinders their game play a lot as well. It VERY much bothers them when people have made comments about their play style. 2 of them both have a story where they ended up crying and wanting to quit the game over what people have said to them in normal content. Thats absolutely disgusting behavior. One is absolutely very sick and doesn't even know if she will be alive within the next 5 years, and its okay to make her feel like shit because she can't DPS during normal content dungeons? Let her have her enjoyment in a video game, Jesus Christ.
Ran out of text room to quote and respond to your last section. Tried to "respond to all your points" though.
If you agree that its fine if a player doesn't preform well due to reasons you may not know about (and by your last response to me, it seems like you do agree with it over all?), then why are you still trying to argue with me? I've already stated I feel a healer (and all jobs) should be using their full kit in true end game content such as Savage. I've also stated that if someone is legit just not doing their "job" because they are being lazy (although hard to prove in most cases), that's crappy of them. Not sure what more you are seeking to be honest, aside from just wanting to argue lol.