Quote Originally Posted by FakeCirka View Post
Wasn't trying to do anything of the sort. Of course a run goes faster if a monster dies. Literal basic logic. The longer it lives, the more risk of something bad happening, sure. I feel like we've just met different types of healers who don't do DPS I suppose, so I try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Just like when I see a tank not popping CDs during big pulls, or a off tank not popping defensives on a main tank or other party members to try and help them out, or a DPS standing in avoidable AoE and clearly turning with their keyboard to move (rather than just using mouse camera movement to move). I don't just assume they are being lazy I guess. If you don't either, thats great. If someone clearly has the ability to do what ever it is they need to do but are just not, then again, I agree, thats crappy of them.

Not saying you're taking a stance against older player/what ever players, but it just sounded like you just default to "Oh great a lazy ass player" when sometimes its not like that.
Saying “if I see a non DPS healer I give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they are old or disabled or have some reasons that’s not “I’m lazy”” is just problematic, you are basically excusing bad play as assumption of a condition someone can’t fix who oftentimes play far better than these crappy players