Why can't I find a job to main?

[CidHeiral]

I'm slightly hesitant about RDM, NIN, and MNK, given their usage on buffs and my legendary crappiness at both remembering to keep my buffs up and, in the case of RDM, targeting my teammates for heals - I can aim at the boss really well, but I tend to fumble trying to target specific teammates.

Typically if you have to heal on RDM your group is already doomed. The only thing you would usually need to target another player for is a combat raise. The only buffs you have to worry about are Embolden and Manification every two minutes and Acceleration. Red Mage is fun, you should give it a shot. I am by no means a caster type player but RDM has just enough melee and overall style to keep my attention when the mood strikes me.