The scenes with Urianger and Moenbryda's parents...I saw time and again he tried to avoid them, and even as a character I realised he was TERRIFIED of what her parents might say to him, blame him for her death, tear him to pieces..instead what we saw was a mothers love, the relief in his eyes..I saw how his hands were shaking.

Put yourself in his place, how would you feel?

That scene tore me up, the one thing he didnt expect was forgiveness, understanding..her mother saying their only regret was that they could not be there for HIM. Urianger was always reclusive, quiet, withdrawn, holding it all in, grieving in private..he had no way of knowing how much her parents loved him as well.

That scene touches on something I know well: survivor guilt.

From Babylon 5

Delenn : Yes, you have lost much, endured much, sacrificed greatly but you cling to the memory of your sacrifices of all the things you have lost or left behind. They drag behind you like chains of your own making. They can have a terrible power over you, Marcus: the power of grief, and loss, and of regret. Yes, you can let go of the people, places and things, but you have not let go of the pain. You have not forgiven yourself.

Marcus Cole : For what?

Delenn : Being alive.