Hello

[NekoMataMata]

He's using it as a descriptive word for the type of person he wants to talk to.

Would you like it better if he had said "girlie" or "chick" or "babe"?

I mean the way they say "females" has the same energy really. Women or biological women or cis women are all perfectly fine.

When people use the word females like that though it makes a lot of us feel like we're being talked about like some form of game or as if we're another species altogether. Can't you understand that it's really, really off putting?