while I would like to think this is genuine, too many times on these forums, someone comes in and relates their side and professes innocence only to have the full story come out later and find there was no error. yes, lack of communication telling you EXACTLY what you did seems to be a common thing

but then, so is buffing up one side of the story to show how wronged you were.

I think I'll wait on the full story for this one.